Robyn: What do you want to do for dinner?

Me:  What are you in the mood for... Chinese, Mexican, Fast Food, Pizza?

Robyn: Mexican Food.

Me:  Cool.  Baja, Anamia's, Rosa's, Blue Mesa?

Robyn:  Probably Baja or Anamia's tonight?

Me: Well, are you going to order queso or guacamoli (yes, this is a vital decision making question)?...

This interrogation will continue until we pretty much know our entire order before we even get in the car.  My point is this... when preparing what to wear for a photo shoot, there are a few questions you should ask yourself to ensure you will be fully satisfied with the results.  

1.  What's the occasion?

For some people this provides an obvious answer as to what should be worn.  The best example would be bridal portraits... generally the point is to show off the hotness of the dress you are going to wear on your big day.  However, you may have another dress you will be wearing to the reception, or  a dress you will be leaving in that you want some portraits in as well. You may even have a grandmother's necklace or sentimental hairpiece that you would always know was missing, if you didn't have it in the pictures.  Take time and think all of this through so you don't forget the important details, as the "little things" are often what we look back and remember most.  

2.  Who will you be sharing these pictures with?

If your sweet granny is going to be purchasing these to show you off to all of her ultra-conservative friends, do her a favor and take at least one outfit where the twins aren't busting out of the skin-tight tube-top.  This will seriously cut down on the amount of unnecessary family drama.

3. Ask yourself, What "rules" have I always followed for pictures? and why?

Don't be afraid to break them!  Love neon or horizontal stripes? Go for it!  I'm all about not holding back, and pushing the envelope.  Maybe not in all of the outfits you choose for your shoot (just incase your mom was right about those acid washed jeans looking too tight) but don't be afraid to have fun with what you are wearing.  Just be sure to share your ideas with your photographer before hand, as they may choose a different location to shoot at based on your coolness factor!

4. Most importantly... Who are you?

Obviously, you know you better than anyone else.  Bring clothes that are specifically you!  Something you feel comfortable and confident in... you know, wear your "I'm a rock-star, and I look freakin hot" outfit!  If you're in a group, family, or couple this still applies.  You can coordinate, but the key is to celebrate your differences.  Each one of you is still a unique individual.  Express that, and the love you have for each other will show up even more in the pictures.